Twenty to thirty years ago when I was growing up in the
Mennonite church, we rarely observed Lent or Advent. As a child I asked my mom why all my Catholic
friends give up something for Lent but we didn’t. She said, “Well, we try to live our whole
lives in Lent.”
Certainly there is much to ponder in that statement in terms
of simple living, but the underlying reality was that Lent (and to a lesser
degree Advent) where things that other Christians do but we Mennonites (and
Evangelicals) don’t.
That’s no longer the case today. Over the past generation more and more
Mennonites (and Evangelicals) are recovering the traditions of Lent and Advent
as periods of prayer, preparation, and spiritual renewal leading up to the two
biggest Christian holy days.
I believe that one reason for this recovery is that we are
far enough removed from historical animosities to realize that there are good
things in those “high church” traditions.
We are now able to admit that we’ve discarded too much over the
centuries.
But I also believe that another reason for this recovery is
because we intuitively know that we need fully-formed religious practices to
withstand the forces of commercialization and consumerism that continue to
co-opt our holy days.
Our somewhat-Christian but secular and consumeristic culture
lacks patience. Therefore, a typical
lead-up to and celebration of Easter goes like this:
Spring sales, candy, flowers, egg hunts, pictures with the
Easter bunny, then off to church on Easter Sunday, followed by dinner at
grandma’s, then it’s all over.
This sequence is even worse for Christmas:
Thanksgiving, black Friday, cyber Saturday, more shopping,
office parties, school plays, lights, more shopping, hot mocha peppermint
lattes, shopping and finally some more shopping, then Christmas Eve and
Christmas Day, then it’s all over.
Our society celebrates too early and ends too abruptly. As a result, we suffer from post-holiday
let-down. The end result of the holiday
is more disappointment and emptiness than lasting joy and fulfillment.
The church needs disciplines of spiritual resistance to come
out from this pagan rhythm and flip the cultural holiday script. We can do this in two steps.
First, we resist the temptation to celebrate too early by
observing the seasons of Lent and Advent.
Our worship and discipleship should mine these spiritual seasons for
depth in order to curb our appetites and focus our hearts.
Then, we resist the let-down of ending to abruptly by
prolonging the celebration. Easter
should not just be one day of worship but a season of basking in the
resurrection. Sing Easter songs for
weeks after Easter Sunday. Don’t buy or
use any Easter decorations or candy until after Easter (you’ll even save money
by getting everything on clearance).
Have people over for dinner the Sunday after Easter Sunday.
Do similar things for Christmas too. Christmas is not just one day of presents but
a time of resting in Christ’s presence.
Don’t sing Christmas carols until Christmas, but then keep singing them
through January. Recover the 12 days of
Christmas and give one present each day for 12 days starting on Christmas.
Flipping these holiday scripts would remind us as the church
that though we are in the world, we are not of the world. We may not be able to totally buck the system
of consumerism around us, but we can set up spaces of sanctuary from the chaos
around us through worship, prayer, and spiritual discipline.
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